In my opinion, I think genuinely nice guys are hard to come by nowadays because they aren’t acknowledged and appreciated anymore. Of course, there is always the desire to look for one. The ‘perfect’ one. That said, when a guy does something wrong in a relationship, the girl unleashes hell, while when a guy opens the door for a girl, the girl does not say anything – partly because she’s shy or clueless on how to respond. Now, the guy here feels that as much as he is doing the right thing, he’ll always have second thoughts whether he is doing it right. Wouldn’t you?
I have to admit I am always trying to be nice. Yien agrees! :p
Of course, from a girl’s point of view, all guys are liars until proven guilty so they probably do not deserve any acknowledgements as such. If so, wouldn’t it explain why nice guys are perishing?
Your opinions, please.
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Im a guy and have gone thru 26 years of unexplainable mature yet immature experience in L.O.V.E. Im not DR. Love k but just share what i thought cos this topic reli attracted me and i strongly disagree with this
“Of course, from a girl’s point of view, all guys are liars until proven guilty so they probably do not deserve any “acknowledgments” as such.”
Before i argue on the phrase lol, i would like to say good guys are not perishing but comes from a good girlfriend. I don’t mean ALL guys but some of them. I agree some guys are born wild or maybe dishonest in their relationship. When you ask them why, everyone got their own reason to ask. Surely there will be a good reason lol. But i still got to say about it.
Not all guys are liar but maybe out of ten, only one can be trusted. I found it really unfair for the good guys out there u know. I found out that most girls always make a conclusion out of their past relationship. If their past relationship is bad, they will learn their lesson and be careful next time and if their past relationship is super romantic, they gonna compare with the current boyfriend. Am what im saying rite?
Im a guy who is very dedicated in love. I care a lot about my own gf, if only i have one and i respect her a lot but the thing which always disappoint me is they never ever once “FULLY trust” even thou they said they trust. I find it hard to explain but i believe in everyone’s relationship, it is girl’s responsibility to built up a good guy and guy’s responsibilities to built up a good girlfriend. Don’t you agree? Im not asking you to 100% agree but at least what im saying is more than 50% rite lol. Well….There are much more to say…on this topic.
Maybe there are a lot of good guys out there but all being spoil by those bad guys who always cheat in their relationship. I found it hard to commit if she doesnt trust me! Don’t you think so?
For me, i found it hard to fine a honest girl and on the other way round, girls might think its hard to find a good guy out there. So what’s the conclusion?
I think i say too much. Sorry to the author, sometimes kepo is not a good stuff but lol…..ok i better stop taking.. :x
Nice guys are hard to come by cuz either they are gay or taken. lol. seriously. the nicest people (guys) I know ARE gay!
It depends on what you mean by nice though. My man treats me like a queen but to others he might be a bit of a dick.
but then again in this oh-so materialistic, conceited world it’s no surprise nice honest people are diminishing.
@JustinKC Many thanks for your insight on this matter. All and all, the odds are that good guys do seem hard to come by. That said, you sound like you belong to the nice group. :) When you mentioned that a nice boyfriend starts with a nice girlfriend, in a way, why are nice girls hard to come by then?
@beckie Hahaha. Gay or taken seems to be a popular excuse too. Hahaha. You know me since elementary, do I look at all like an honest nice friend to you? :D
How is the deifinition of good guys? Dont smoke, dont drink? Loyal? Well manners? I think everyone has very own different definition.
@Iris Everyone has its own definition, though what matters most, is what constitutes as a good guy in the eyes of the girl, agree?
aiyah hin ching. no need me to shine your shoes. hahaha…. well, you do LOOK nice and honest. just not letting your LOOKS fool me. =p
yeah yeah, you are nice and helpful and caring and sensitive and…… so much more!
1. gays are nice to you girls because they aren’t interested in you.
2. deep down in every girl, they want a bad-ass “looking” guy. the more he looks like a bad-ass, the more they love him.
3. i think this is how the good guys got extinct. because if you’re to nice and proper, you get called a geek or dweeb. Something like that.
just my 2 cents :D